Semantics or Seismic Shift?
By Genevieve S. Kineke
Many
have asked whether Sarah Palin is a feminist. This highlights
the lively debate among women of faith about whether the
word “feminist” can still be a vehicle for
the beautiful truths about authentic femininity. Before
we decide, we must take note of the latest salvo launched
in the battle to define feminism by its radical vanguard.
The National Organisation for Women (NOW) has
revealed more of its true agenda since the success of Sarah
Palin
in the
national arena. Their long-standing mission statement might
have mistakenly been interpreted as supportive of her candidacy: “Our
purpose is to take action to bring women into full participation
in society—sharing equal rights, responsibilities and
opportunities with men, while living free from discrimination.” Considering
their vehement objection to this particular woman’s
successful “participation in society,” a change
was in order.
The result was a new mission statement, making
their priorities clearer: “NOW works to end discrimination and harassment
in the workplace, schools, the justice system, and all other
sectors of society, secure abortion, birth control and reproductive
rights for all women.” This new creation underscores
the feminist view about reproductive “rights,” but
more importantly, their view of men, whom they accuse of
discriminating, impregnating and otherwise harassing women
as a matter of course. Despite tremendous advances for women,
they still see the whole world aligning itself against them.
Contrary to popular belief, feminists don’t hate motherhood—as
long as it’s on their own terms. Sperm banks, in vitro
fertilization and lesbian adoptions are touted as hip and
brave choices, and cloning is the Promised Land on the horizon.
Radical feminists reserve their true hatred for fatherhood,
despite the abundance of men who love and support the women
in their lives and collaborate for the good of their shared
offspring.
Sarah Palin has forced their hand for two reasons: she
allows her children to live and she collaborates with
men. While
neither is conducive to the NOW worldview, the first is
an irritant, the second is the real outrage. As many
Americans
struggle to understand how feminists could possible not
appreciate this example of hard work, courage, balance
and brains, we
are invited to look beyond the rhetoric to what really
drives feminist rage.
Behind every raging feminist is a wounded heart that blames
the patriarchy and holds all forms of male authority
in contempt. The most important remaining goal of radical
feminists is
to destroy fatherhood by destroying the links inherent
in traditional family life.
Interestingly, the greatest obstacle to their agenda
are women of faith, who obstinately refuse to undermine
authentic
masculinity. These women create the essential bridge
that grounds each generation in reality, by making
fatherhood a positive dimension of their children’s lives and
by submitting to legitimate male authority. Such strong,
well-grounded women provide the essential bridge to fatherhood,
which is of critical importance to children struggling to
know reality.
Any environmentalist can explain the dynamic interactions
among living creatures, and the family is the most
important eco-system of all. Even the survivors of
Lost know that
we “live
together or die alone.” The problem with feminists
is their zero-sum game, in which “grrl power” must
be achieved at the expense of boys and men—and babies.
Authentic femininity is a pole star pointing to the
One who makes all life possible, primarily by loving
and
supporting masculinity in all its richness. We
must defend motherhood—for
the sake of fatherhood, which is the primary target in these
turbulent times; and yet, attempting to retrieve the label
of “feminism” for this integrated worldview is
proving more difficult than ever.
Mrs. Kineke is the author
of The Authentic Catholic Woman (Servant Books).